Wake Up Ready

What do all of these things do? They can help you get a better night’s sleep, something not as easily achieved as you’d think sometimes. 

 

As a busy mother of two and all that this entails, someone who works full-time from home as a freelance copywriter and again someone who always seems to be busy with various other things I get tired. Really tired. Despite this lately I haven’t been enjoying as much sleep or rather as much quality sleep as I would like.

During particularly busy periods i.e. work-wise or during half terms when I’m juggling work and fun with the boys I tend to get up earlier. 4am earlier. I manage this quite easily and don’t always need the eight hours of sleep most people do in order to be up and at them the next day. That is only true if the hours of sleep I get are quality/deep sleep hours and as you can tell, this isn’t happening much at the moment.


*This was one of my better nights!

These top tips for promoting better sleep will hopefully help you enjoy a better night-time and some higher quality sleep. I’m changing my bedtime habits and am already starting to see the difference. Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither is a new sleep routine however if you still with it, the benefits and numerous.

Top Tips for Better Sleep

  • Make sure you have a decent mattress and good quality pillows. (We’ve replaced our mattress and our duvet/pillows and already feel more supported in bed).
  • Get the temperature right. Some people like to sleep in a cold room with the window open. Some prefer a toasty warm bed. Find your optimum temperature for a good night and do your best to mimic this exactly each evening.
  • Set a consistent sleep time and stick to it. By getting yourself into a routine and going to bed at the same time every night and rising at the same or similar time your body will be trained into a sleep pattern that works for you.
  • Ditch the Nana Nap. While it might be tempting to nap during the day, for many people doing so reduces the amount of sleep and/or the quality of sleep they achieve at night time.
  • Go Digital Free. Buy an alarm clock that runs on batteries. Don’t have your phone next to your bed as an alarm. Not only will you be tempted to check your messages or social media, it pays to switch all electricals or as many as possible off and enjoy a proper silence.
  • Cut the caffeine. Stop drinking caffeinated drinks earlier in the day as caffeine is a stimulant and stimulants can keep you awake. Switch to a hot milk drink, a hot chocolate perhaps (easy on the cream and marshmallows) or try a herbal tea. I find chamomile soothing before bed.
  • Dark rooms are the best for sleeping in. Do you have a street light outside your room? If so invest in an eye mask. Why is complete dark important? This article explainshow your body reacts to the darkness and how it can help you sleep better.
  • Write down your worries, your thoughts and your to do list before you go to bed. I keep a notebook and pencil on my bedside table and if I get an “Oh I must remember that” or an “I must do this” thought I write it down and forget it. I also do my to-do list for the next day before I sleep, I find it helps me start the next day better and it helps me relax.
  • Try a herbal remedy. Some people do just need some extra sleep help. Lavender is well-known for its calming and sleep-promoting properties and valerian root is a well-known natural sleep aid.

Sometimes there may be other reasons for poor sleep and this may be down to stress or anxiety. Both of these have an effect on your physically and so should be taken seriously. Kalms who are running the #wakeupready campaign (see more on Twitter) about promoting better sleep have some really good advice about stress and anxiety on their website.

We all go through periods of adjustment, stress and various other stages which may affect our sleep. Try some of these top tips and the chances are you’ll be sleeping like a baby sooner rather than later. If your sleep problems persist for longer than a month do see a GP.

*The lovelies at Kalms sent me the sleep kit pictured above and have offered lots of help and advice about how to sleep better. This piece is based on my own experiences and Kalms have no editorial control over my content.

 

The Magic of Sleep

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I love being a Mum. We consider ourselves very lucky to have two such fabulous young boys; we adore them, we cherish them, we love them but the second tea is over and it is bedtime those little angels are off up the wooden hill!

Thankfully both boys like their sleep because by the time evening has come around I’m ready to shut down, to relax, to spend time with Roy and generally just flop. We were fortunate that both boys sleep really well usually because if something disturbs them (like light nights for example!) I’m a dribbling wreck in the morning.

Clearly, I need to sort some kind of blackout solutions for sunny evenings and bright mornings because I am most definitely a girl that needs her beauty sleep! We did try some clever stick on blackout blinds once upon a time and while they were “ok” it was an old house and the windows got wet inside sometimes, and they got wet, then fell down…

We’ve winged it since then but to be honest I really need to get my bottom in gear and look for a permanent solution. Blinds appeal to me but to be honest I’ve always thought they look a bit dull in a child’s room and I’ve been wary from a safety aspect. Having done a little research I needn’t have worried are there’s a whole host of safety features built into blinds these days. That ticks that box so imagine my delight to find that the company VELUX actually have Disney themed blinds for children amongst other designs.

I like a child’s room to be full of colour (as long as said room isn’t flooded with colourful daylight interrupting my lazy evening or early morning sleep) so these are great. Taylor currently has a bright rainbow-stripe coloured duvet set, fun stickers all over his wardrobe, fun colourful toy boxes and more. To put a plain cream blackout blind in would have been a bit of a buzz-kill in my opinion.

We were very pleased to see that a lot of the blinds are also remote controllable (no tugging, twisting and yanking from him or us and we decide when it’s time for sunlight to come in) which is another bonus feature.

Our one snag (or so I thought) was that our bedroom windows in this wonderful character-filled house are all sash windows with original bottle glass. We did have a company come and quote us to have blinds fitted a few years ago and they weren’t sure how to manage that the way the windows are. Thankfully  VELUX blackout blind installers aren’t fazed by this (and indeed have blinds perfectly designed for just this type of window) so it looks like we have some pattern choosing to do!

Have you had blackout blinds installed in your child’s room? How did you find the process and was it worth it? Sleep is so important (ours as well as theirs) so we are seriously considering doing both children’s rooms and possibly ours too!

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