The NCT

Did you have anything to do with the NCT (National Childbirth Trust) when you were pregnant or a new mum? Don’t get excited, I’m not pregnant nor do I plan to be (that ship has sailed as after many struggles I now have two lovely boys and don’t feel the need to add to our number).

I am however surrounded by pregnant people (they are everywhere – be careful of drinking the local water folks!) and I’m thrilled for each and every one. Talking about babies is great, I get to share my “expert” knowledge as a Mum of two boys, eventually getting lots of baby cuddles and I can give these beautiful bundles of joy back when visiting time is over. Despite being a so-called experienced mother when asked the other day about the NCT I didn’t have a lot to say about them because I haven’t had a lot to do with them.

From the look of their website they sound like a fantastic support resource and yet despite having a strong branch locally  I never really got involved, other than attend the nearly new sales. I do have to take a minute to elaborate on the sales. These are not baby and toddler related jumble sales, far from it in fact. They are well organised and run sales where members of the NCT and others sell their no-longer needed items. No tat here, everything is generally great quality and very reasonable. From prams and pushchairs to linens and toys there is something here. Our best buy was for Kieran – £7 for a Megabloks table with two little stools and drawers full of blocks – brilliant! Do check out your local sale.

I’m aware that the website has a wealth of information available and all the opportunity to buy items through them which helps with their own fundraising. There is a dedicated section for Baby Carriers for example where you may browse and buy or have a look at their baby wearing guide.

Similarly there are sections on the best nursing tops, maternity nightwear, baby cribs, nursing bras and Nursing Bras too. The website is definitely a great resource and I’ve browsed it myself however I don’t have any experience of the local group to share with my pregnant family and friends.

I know that in some areas they run ante-natal groups (no offense to my local health team who were by and large fantastic but the NHS antenatal classes I attended when I was pregnant with my eldest are best remembered for the hard chairs) and that there are opportunities for meet and greets, play dates and all sorts. I’ve seen posters up about many of these events however obviously I’m past that stage now and having not “had a go” back when, I know little about them.

Were or are you a member of the NCT? What experiences are you able to share about the practical aspects of their support? I’m trying to glean first hand info for my pregnant buddies however I’m guessing this post might help others too.

Such a cute stage!
Such a cute stage!

*Written in collaboration with the mentioned business or organisation yet true to my thoughts, feelings and experiences.

Calling all Majorca Experts

It is April.

It is raining.
Again…

Don’t get me wrong, I fully expected April Showers to start as promptly as ever as they are practically a British institution. What I didn’t expect however was for us to have such a long and foul winter. Between the cold weather “snap” that meant we had snow every month for six months and the fact that our traditional summertime has been known to last a little over three weeks before now, I’m ready for a change.

Worry not; I’m not looking to move abroad however I have been looking at some cheap holidays to Majorca instead.

Here is a confession for you, I’ve never been abroad. Not once.  I’ve always been working, had other commitments, been busy being pregnant, having children, building a business and things like that and haven’t seemed to have enough time to organise and execute a jolly holiday abroad. I think though that if I am ever going to see proper sunshine again that I am going to have to take drastic action.

Unfortunately I don’t know where to start.

Passports
None of us have passports – is it very difficult to sort these? I know the kids need to have them too. I also know roughly how much each one costs but I won’t go there today.

Heat
Don’t laugh! I am planning a trip abroad to Majorca and I don’t like being too hot. That said I’m told it is “a different type of heat”. Is it different? Isn’t hot just hot?

Insurance
This has me baffled slightly. What will I need? Where is best to get it i.e. through the holiday provider or independently? What insurances do I actually need and what are advisable?

Travelling with Kids
I know a lot of my readers do it. Is it as easy as some of you all make out or are you the kings and queens of bribery?

So many questions, I could easily talk myself out of it to be honest however nothing ventured and all that…..

Majorca has great reviews online and from what I can see there is plenty to do for all ages whether you want to be lazy or active, and I believe there are some good tours and what not for us history buffs too.

So tell me, to Majorca or not to Majorca, and do you have any wise words to share if I do decide to bite the bullet?

Beautiful Majorca

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* Written in collaboration with the mentioned business yet true to my thoughts, feelings and experiences.