Putting the Curly back in Curly & Candid

Despite my blog being called Curly and Candid, if I’m being honest about the way things are I should have gone with something like Frizzy and Funny. My hair has been a bane, seriously. I have curly hair you see, but my curls are shy and for years have hidden themselves under layers of frizz.

At school I was THE SHEEP (kids can be little gits can’t they?!) and years of “Baaaaaaaaa” did nothing for my hair’s self-esteem.

I’ve tried everything up until now. I once had very long curly hair (which knotted terribly, huge cotters) and when put up every day it was so heavy it pulled the clip down and gave me a bald patch for a time. Cut short time.

I’ve dug a few pics out for illustration purposes….

Hmm bulk seems to be the keyword here
Fuzzy!
Yes, I played Goal Defence! Look at the hair!
I know, I'll beat the frizzy mess by having it cut then SHAVED up the back. What the.....??
This one doesn't look quite so bad but if you enlarge it you'll see just how well defined my hair is. I have used hair gel, man hair gel. Defined, yes and crispy... most definitely! I couldn't sit back on the sofa or lie down because the back would de-crisp and go fuzzy šŸ™‚

There are much worse pictures floating around somewhere but I’ve “forgotten” where they are.

Now the reason for this post other than to reach out in sympathy to other curly haired frizz fighters is largely because of a conversation I had with @PanteneUk on Twitter a week or so ago. I had finally found a mousse that works, no need for gel or hairspray, no wet hair or crispy curls, and this was Perfect Curls from Pantene.

To my horror, I found out recently that they had discontinued it! PANIC!

Perfect Curls has been replaced with the new Defined Curls which I have to say is utterly brilliant but not quite as good as beating the frizz as PC was. The lovelies at Pantene suggested I try Repair and Protect Shampoo and Conditioner as well as the new mousse and were kind enough to send me some to try. They didn’t ask me to review it but I will anyway because I am so impressed!

Move over Mona Lisa
BIG GRIN - no fuss, curls AND hold!
It even passes the baby climbing all over you test.

I haven’t gone in for what I previously considered “cosmetic” shampoos because I wash my hair every morning. I have to, I wake up looking like Goal Defence girl above so have opted for a daily use combo. Never again.

A big thanks to Pantene, for the first time in as long as I can remember I actually like my hair!

If you have any hair or Pantene product queries then give Shivani who runs their UK Twitter account a shout, she really does know her stuff!

Is it Really Ok to Say What We Think Online?

 

photo by stev.ie via PhotoRee


In this modern world we celebrate the fact that we have freedom of speech. With the exception of libel and what not we can pretty much say what we like. If we have an opinion we can share it… or can we?

Social media is a wonderful thing however sometimes I find that we are prohibited from saying what we think because some fear the wrath of the masses. Over the past year there have been many news items of note that have been dissected across Twitter and Facebook especially. Amy Winehouse’s death, the London Riots, Strikes and more have been hot topics and debate is good. Debate is healthy. What is neither good nor healthy is being pulled apart, verbally (in text form) abused or heckled.

This year I have seen someĀ unbelievableĀ messages posted around the internet. Ā I’m unconcerned with the rights or wrongs of each news story but have been appalled at how people have been so willing to tear a person down for having an apposing view. Surely if you have internet access and a Twitter account you should (in theory) be mature enough to know thatĀ viciousĀ name calling (to the extent of abusing people’s families too) and blatant bullying is unacceptable?!

I suspect a lot of it comes from the anonymity that being an internet user can provide. People seem quite happy to hide behind the avatar or profile picture when I’m sure they wouldn’t act the same way face to face.

Do we still have free speech? Really? To an extent we do but if the online society continues as it is, many will stop using their right to utilise it.

I’d be interested to hear what you think about this, is this not such a big issue? Is it just me who feels that this social censorship could very well get out of hand?