Memories

Today I am thinking about memories or rather things that inspire me to remember memories. It could be that today feels particularly poignant as we spotted the first conkers from our famous local conker tree on the ground on the way home from the school run. It could be the gold and reds of the leaves and that strange feeling that comes with a cold yet sunny autumn day with a bright blue sky.

They say nostalgia is the taste of food you ate in childhood, which is quite poetic and more than a little true – but it’s also the music you heard, the TV programmes you watched, the rituals you observed, the ornaments your mother favoured. For me it could be something as simple as the smell of a Sunday Roast – or even Sunday night TV.

As I watch the boys grow up (far too fast) I wonder what they will think of fondly when they are older. They will, in fact they do experience things differently to how I did when I was their age, mainly because the world has changed. Will they see fluffy socks and “proper” PJs and think of our fun movie PJ days? Will they smell rosemary and think of fun times in our garden? I’d love to know!

Memories help us see the past too, as people share their memories of days gone past. I adore family history, indeed anything related to history because I love the idea of things having been different once and wondering how much more different they really were.

This peek into the past was inspired by a new survey conducted by Betta Living, that shows how childhood memories across the UK are influenced by geographical location. Make sure you have a nosy.

This was my Mum and Dad's and I remember it well from when i was younger. I have now stolen it for my office and love having this physical memory in my home to enjoy.
This was my Mum and Dad’s teasmade and I remember it well from when I was younger. I have now stolen it for my office and love having this physical memory in my home to enjoy.

 

*This post was written in collaboration with the mentioned business yet is true to my own thoughts, feelings and experiences.

When I was fifteen…

“Mummy, in ten years I will be FIFTEEN which is a grown up!”

That is quite possibly the scariest thing that has ever come out of my son’s mouth. Fifteen? I remember all too well who I was and what I was doing at fifteen.

At fifteen I smoked, I drank (like a fish – white lightning cider and 20/20 do not mix well), I fell in love (lust), lost my virginity, had my heart broken (crushed in fact, which I replayed repeatedly to Tom’s Late Night Love-In on the radio as I sobbed into my pillow), I wore ridiculously high mules and suitably short dresses and had a heavier hand with the eye liner than David Bowie ever did.

Don’t get me wrong, at 15 there were some amazing things that I miss to this day, probably most of all the ability to leave the house braless, without tripping over something. At fifteen I was invincible, I was sure, I was so naive.

What do you remember about being 15? For the most part I loved being 15, heart-break aside, and if I could reach back and grab my 15yr old self I think rather than tell her not to do things she did or make the mistakes she did I would just give her a big hug and let her get on with it. My teenage years went a long way towards defining what and who I would become later on.

Tell me about your 15yr old self.

And for those who were 15yr old girls, and now have grown up boys, tell me it’ll be easier!

 

photo by photoproject2004 via PhotoRee