The Lifeblood of a Freelancer

Do you know what keeps the majority of freelancers / self-employed people going? Is it a pretty office, a popular brand diary/planner or a fancy app? No, the lifeblood of a freelancer is coffee.

If you’ve worked for yourself and are reading this now (whether you are a coffee fan or not) you’ll most likely be nodding your head. There are certainly pros and cons to being self-employed, for example:

The Good Stuff

  • You choose who you work for
  • You choose where you work
  • You choose when you work – You have a certain amount of flexibility (important when you’re juggling the work/home/family combo)

The Not-So Good Stuff

  • Invoice chasing (believe it or not, not everyone has the same ethical standards as you when it comes to paying people what they are owed)
  • Flexible working – If you need to move your hours around to suit children or other obligations, being self-employed can see you working at 11pm at night or 4am in the morning. It’s a bit of a double-edged sword this one!
  • Staying motivated – You’ve no boss breathing down your neck, why not take a well-deserved hour out to watch your latest Netflix fave? Of course three episodes in you realise you probably should have just kept working…

To be honest, if I was to write a full list of the ups and downs of being a freelancer, for me, freelancing comes top every time over being employed.

The Freelancer’s Coffee

Log onto Instagram and you’ll see a variety of coffee mug and desk shots from people working from home. Is coffee magical? Does it mysteriously manage to push deadlines back a few hour, days or weeks? No of course not (although if you think you have a magic brew that does do that, please get in touch).

After collaborating with the lovelies at Gourmesso.co.uk (we’ve had a good natter about all things coffee-related and how we feel the world couldn’t possibly keep rotating with it) I wanted to write a little more about my love for coffee.

Freelancer’s Coffee is not a brew designed to give you a caffeine hit that will have you typing like the wind. It isn’t something that magically keeps you going either. Yes, caffeine is a stimulant but let’s face it, you’d need a fair bit of caffeine to keep us all going like we do. For me, Freelancer’s Coffee is me taking time out of a busy day to not work, not answer emails, not rush around; to just relax.

A decent cup of coffee can be incredibly tasty and this enjoyment is one of the many little enjoyments and distractions I, and many freelancers enjoy as part of the daily grind that is our work. Don’t get me wrong, I love what I do but it is work at the end of the day (I don’t sit and grin at a laptop all day). I get tired, cranky, pee’d off sometimes and I need a break.

A Freelancer’s Coffee is also quite sociable. Many, indeed most freelancers work alone, often in an office at home or similar. I don’t see anyone from the minute I start to the minute I finish. It’s nice therefore to grab a brew and “talk” to friends and other freelancers online (there are even chatrooms and similar for freelancers). This is a break, it’s refreshing and it breaks up the day. I might have a brew and have a text conversation or similar before getting back to work. Coffee is important people!

To be fair I’m as much of a tea tart as I am a coffee tart and so when coffee isn’t exactly what I need I switch over to something fresh, citrus, minty or herbal. Never let it be said that I’m stuck in my ways!

Do you work for yourself? Would your day be less bright without your favourite tea or coffee? Mine certainly would be. Coupled with my favourite mug it gets me going and keeps me going all day.

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From Bingo to Pinning: This Mother’s Reward

The boys are back at school now after a wonderful summer off. Working from home I’ve had the opportunity to spend the whole summer with them. Working from home also means my day has been starting at 4am every morning in order to get my work done before they come down for breakfast around 9am.

Don’t get me wrong, it has been an amazing summer but I was tired! I took three days off last week after they’d gone back to school and now I’m making sure that I prioritise my “me” time on an evening. Us parents get worn down, especially when juggling children at home and working during the holidays. By ensuring I have me time set aside I reduce the crazy tiredness build-up and recover from silly o’clock starts a lot quicker.

Now autumn has landed (or will seeing as we have a freakishly out-of-season heatwave going on today!) my me time treats are, and will be focused mainly indoors.

Reading a Good Book

I’m a huge reader. Indeed I’m only three books off completing my GoodReads challenge of 50 books in 2016. At the moment I’m reading Women in Berlin by Anonymous, harrowing yet gripping at the same time. I love losing myself in a good book.

TV

Me time often takes place on the sofa and that means Sky+ and Netflix. I’m nearly finished watching Gilmore Girls again ahead of the “new” GG in November and Chicago Fire and Victoria amongst others keep me going each week.

Bingo

I love the social aspect of online Bingo and often play at GameVillage during the evening when I don’t fancy what’s on TV. I like the promotions, the mini games (and free games) as well as the chat function. Some chat groups are better than others but I’ve found a few I enjoy. For a lighthearted flutter it’s just the thing.

Pinterest

I have something of a Pinterest obsession. I can spend hours on my Pinterest boards, adding and searching, browsing and pinning. Whomever came up with the idea of Pinterest was a genius!

Of courseRoyand I enjoy leisure time together (we’re both sci-fi/fantasy fans which means we’re rarely far from a Star Trek episode but sometimes this Mum needs some vegging out as a reward for making it through the day intact and for me, bingo, reading, Pinterest, TV and just flopping around on the sofa does the trick.

How do all of the rest of you mums and dads spend your wind-down time?