Well That Came Around Fast

Well That Came Around Fast
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“Look Mummy! I’m a big boy now!”

Last week I applied for Taylor’s primary school place. How on earth did that come around so quickly?

I don’t know why I’m surprised really, the time flew past with Kieran too however this is my youngest and last baby. Don’t get me wrong, I’m excited too. Taylor is like a little sponge, soaking up new experiences with enthusiasm and seeking out more on a daily basis. He’ll love school and to be fair has been asking for a blue jumper and blue book bag “just like Kieran” for six months or more now.

He started with a (fabulous) childminder for three days a week when he was eighteen months old and that dropped to two days when he started preschool for two days a week in Jan last year. I’m used to him being out of the house, learning, exploring and having a great time with his friends for four days a week however we’ll be losing our Fridays. Friday is “Mummy” day, a day just for the two of us. We might be doing housework, we might be conker hunting or walking over fields or we might be curled up under a blanket watching a film together. I don’t work Friday during the day, choosing to work evenings or early mornings instead  because this is our special time, in the same way as when Kieran and I carve out special 1-1 time for ourselves at the weekend. I’ll miss Fridays.

Although I’m smarting a little this week at how quickly time seems to be moving, how fast they are growing I have to say though that I’m loving watching them develop into the men they’ll all-to-soon become. Both boys have such colourful personalities and school helps them explore and shape these.

No, I ‘m not sad, I am excited now. Just remind me of that in April when we get the confirmation of Taylor’s school place and in August when I’m sewing name labels into everything for him!

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School Admissions from a Panicky Parent’s Point of View

A mum of two young boys, Stacey currently lives in Dorset and divides her free time (!) between looking after house and home, trying (sometimes unsuccessfully) new recipes, blog writing at It Takes A Woman, writing on theatre at BrewDrinkingThinkings and spending lovely evenings with friends and family. I’m very grateful she’s agreed to do us this cracking guest post!

My eldest son is nearly 3 and a half and is going great guns at Preschool, but pretty soon we will have to start the school admission process for him to start in Reception year in September 2012. School admissions are extremely competitive in my area and, since we are in the middle of two or three years in which there were bumper births in the area, competition for school places is quite fierce.

We live in Poole, which hit the news a couple of years ago for using anti-terrorism legislation when surveiled a family who had been reported as making a fraudulent application for a school place. They were not, as it turned out, doing anything wrong as they did indeed live in the catchment for the school they applied to – unfortunately it was (and is) a very popular and successful school. So why were they reported in the first place? Was competition so fierce that a green-eyed parent falsely reported them?

I find the whole arrangement troubling – parents at our Preschool who have gone through admissions this year seem to be mostly unhappy with their allocations. We previously lived in the catchment area of a fairly unsuccessful and quite run down school so when we had to move, although we liked the area, we specifically moved to the area we live in now because the First school is so good. It seems, though, that a lot of the children at our Preschool have been allocated places at the school in our old area, leaving us with the real possibility that our children will end up there anyway. We would have leave to appeal, but that may or may not be successful.

So what do we do now? At the moment, all of the above are unspecified worries as we can’t actually apply for places until the end of the year, but I’m trying to stay a step ahead in noting what the current policies are and what the deadlines will be. Our school of choice has 90 places available but, as I said, 2007 – 2009 were bumper birth years with an average of 1600 babies born in Poole in each of those years. Several schools have had to increase their numbers to accommodate this rate but it still means that not every child will get a place at their catchment area school. The Borough, however sees its job as done as long as all children in the Borough get a place somewhere – even though this could be a fair few miles away from their home.

Given this state of affairs, I know that I can’t change any initial outcome and I know the proper channels to take should we not get the allocation that we want, but I wonder what lengths some parents might go to, to get their children into a ‘good’ school? Obviously Poole Borough Council must have believed that the parents they surveiled had gone to fraudulent lengths to get their children into a good school and only last year the previous Government announced a range of measures, including a ‘whistleblower hotline’ and door step checks to uncover suspected fraud.

I’d like to think we’ve done everything right to ensure our children get the education we want for them, but we shall know whether we have done enough by this time next year. Unfortunately, I think it’s more a case of ‘fingers crossed’ than anything else!

Wow! Our area isn’t as competitive as this for school places and if Twitter and the like are anything to do by, there are even worse areas. Is the system broken? Are you in a similar situation? I’d love to hear your experiences.

Nicki