When Someone Older Might Need a Little Help

When Someone Older Might Need a Little Help

None of us are getting any younger, and if you’re still fortunate enough to have your parents around, neither are they or any other older family or friends. There will come a time when they might struggle to take care of themselves, perhaps because of the natural decline of their bodies and senses, or because they start to show signs of particular health problems. Thankfully my parents are as spry as ever but my very early working years was spend in geriatrics and therefore I know that there comes a time when we all might need a little help.

If you have someone in your life approaching golden years you need to be alert to any issues for their care and safety, as despite their best interests, they might be too proud to ask you for a little help.

These are some of the signs you need to look out for.

#1: Signs of Forgetfulness

Many of us start to get forgetful with age. It’s a natural decline in our cognitive abilities, and while there are ways to reduce this ageing effect, such as by engaging our brains on a regular basis, we might still start to have problems at some point in our lives. So, be on the lookout for signs of memory loss. They might have trouble remembering simple things, such as the names of your children. And you might realise that they have forgotten to take their medications. In the worst-case scenario, it could be that your parents or others you might be responsible for are suffering from Alzheimer’s disease or dementia, so check on the signs and symptoms within the linked article, and speak to your their GP/someone suitable for more advice on how to help them. For general memory loss, you might also set up alarms and reminders on their phone to help them remember important dates and things they need to do. It might just be that they need a little help with certain things.

#2: Signs of Depression

Depression does not discriminate and strikes all ages. It can be common amongst elderly people living alone, as it is usually symptomatic of loneliness. You can spot this when talking to your parent or other loved one. Other signs include a messy house or weight loss, as they might be less inclined to clean and eat as a consequence of how they are feeling. Help them by finding social activities in your local area, or visit them more often. You might also consider inviting them to stay with you if you have room in your house. And if you don’t have a lot of space, you could acquire the services of granny flat builders to provide extra accommodation on the grounds of your property. Again, speak to your parent’s GP for further advice if you feel someone close to you might need a little help.

#3: Signs of Mobility Issues

Mobility can become an issue for many of us as we get older, as our bones and muscles start to weaken with age. This might be true for your parents or indeed anyone, so be on the lookout for any signs that they might need extra help. If you notice any bruising on their body, it might be because they have fallen. If they start to breathe heavily when walking, it might be because they are in pain. And if you see them struggle with steps or stairs, or if they are regularly in need of something to hold onto when walking, then they are obviously struggling. These are just a few things to look out for.

Thankfully, there are some easy ways to help them. By buying them a walking aid, they will have less trouble with balance. By modifying their home, you can also make life easier for them. Still, speak to your parent’s or loved one’s GP, as they might also need specialist help, especially if they are suffering from any degenerative bone diseases or any other issue that might affect their balance and mobility. 

I hope this article was useful but let me know what you think. If you have any other advice for me readers based on your experiences, be sure to let me know. 

Ignoring Your Health As a Freelancer

Ignoring Your Health As a Freelancer

I’ve been a freelancer for coming up thirteen years, and I love it. There are many well-known benefits such as no limit of earnings, family flexibility, working with clients and on projects that you love and more.  Ignoring your health as a freelancer is far from a benefit yet is something many of us do or have done, me included.

Stop Ignoring Your Health As a Freelancer & Limit Your Screen Time 

As someone who jokes that she is surgically connected to her laptop, this advice might seem a little hypocritical. Take it from someone who knows though, no matter how important that client is, they cannot be more important than your eyesight. Try to avoid glare as much as possible, and turn up at your regular eye tests. There are other ways of protecting your eyes, too. Make sure that you have natural light coming into your office, even if it is just your back bedroom.

Take a break from the screen every now and then, and learn how to touch type, so you can exercise your eyes, and avoid strains. You might even invest in pinhole glasses that will naturally improve your focus on the screen. I use to use glare reduction glasses and my optician now suggests blue tinted glasses because I now need glasses (I’ve always managed to get away with no prescription in the past but it’s caught up with me). 

Take Care Of Your Body’s Nutritional Needs 

Do you find yourself too busy to have breakfast or stop for lunch? It is a sign that you are ignoring your health as a freelancer and neglecting your own body’s needs. If you would like to stay healthy and make the most out of your business, you will need to find the time. Even a few minutes of walking around the house or taking the dog for a walk will help you clear your head and get your metabolism going. Avoid food that might make you feel sluggish. Check out Nutritional Cleanse’s range if you would like to get more vitamins and minerals in your body without having to cook every meal.  I now go to the gym three times a week after school run and before I start work. Rather than eating into my day, I find it motivates me when I do get back to the laptop, and it counteracts the hours spent sitting down!

Get Some Fresh Air 

Sometimes little things go a long way when it comes to your health. Getting fresh air will improve your immune system and help you make the most out of your digestive health, as well. Freelancers find it hard to keep themselves healthy, and they certainly don’t have enough fresh air, being stuck indoors or in the car or meeting customers. Instead of ignoring your health as a freelancer open some windows, open the door, work undercover in the garden or just take five-minute breaks outside.

Automate What You Can to Avoid Repetitive Moves 

If you spend most of your time typing away and copying and pasting images, your wrists will suffer. Make sure that you adjust your workspace and support your joints. If you have to wear wrist support to avoid strains and carpal tunnel syndrome,  do so. This is better than putting up with joint pain for years. You might also invest in back support and a footrest, so you can take the pressure off your joints and your legs and stay healthy. I would be lying if I said that ignoring your health as a freelancer when it comes to this goes without consequences but my physio would tell you that I’m lying.

Stay Active 

Being active doesn’t mean that you have to go to the gym every day or every other like me. In fact, you can set up an exercise routine for home. No matter if you learn yoga or Tai chi from YouTube videos or sign up for a health challenge online, you will be able to keep your muscles active and your digestive system healthy. You can walk, take a few stretches, or simply do some leg lifts when you are sitting in front of your computer. If you feel like you just want to sit on the sofa and watch your favourite series at night, challenge yourself to do more. 

Improve Your Sleep Patterns 

If you are overworked and your thoughts are still racing when you hit the bed, chances are that you will need to improve your sleep patterns.  You can find natural remedies for better sleep and relaxation, or simply take on meditation and other mindfulness exercises to stop the busy brain and get a good night’s sleep. I use a Yoga Nidra meditation and some breathing exercises before bed and am soon fast asleep.

Ignoring Your Health As a Freelancer: In Conclusion

To make the most out of your business as a freelancer, you have to learn how to put yourself first every now and then. Your health is one of your most valuable assets if you are running your own business without help. Don’t sideline it, make your wellbeing the first and last thing you do every day and trust me when I tell you, with the benefit of hindsight, that you will thank yourself for that later!



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